It’s much better for people to hate us or not like us, rather than love us wrongly. Nothing hurts more than, being surrounded by a love which doesn’t feel like love, which feels as if someone is prickling you with a throne every time.
It’s better to hear, I hate you or it’s better to muster the courage to hear the words, that I don’t like your company rather than being in love with someone, whosoever it may be, any relationship, and letting it turn into “a taken for a granted pattern”.
Whether it be our close relatives, siblings, cousins or partner. Sometimes, we really love them, we can really do anything in this world to seek their validation and hear those sweet words of acceptance and that’s where you’ll understand, that if you are seeking this validation, Is the love exchanged between you two right? Is it pure? Or is it just attention deprived? Sometimes, even worse, the love turns out to be toxic, abusive or ruthless.
I’ve realized one thing over the years, you need to have the courage to encounter the situation, where you really love the person, but you should have the courage to say, that Listen I love you, I really do, but I love myself more and I would really appreciate, not being loved at all, but at any given cost, I won’t appreciate being wrongly loved or neglected. That’s not my style.
I think so as individuals, we are enough on our own, we are worthy and capable of everything and the love inside us for ourselves, forms the pattern of love we will be receiving from others as well. And no matter, how unloved you feel. Know one thing, Your God, your mom and your pets, if you have any and this nature loves you and accepts you for, who you are.
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