Real meaning of self love

I’ve read few people posting quotes about self love where they consider being mean and selfish is good .I totally understand that when you lay down your life for others and they don’t revert back , Human mind kinda gets pissed off and tries to cut connection and people start finding meaning in such quotes .

The only thing here is, you are a clear projection of how you treat people and you don’t have to count on the love and respect you give to the another person .

Because everyone is different and their emotions and expressions are different too .If you’ll expect the same kind of behaviour with everyone , You’ll end up feeling exhausted .

Self love is all about how strong you are making yourself , with how much respect you look at yourself in the mirror and what affirmations you keep in mind while waking up and going to sleep .

No one’s opinion should effect you , other then the opinion you have for yourself .Be good in your own eyes .Do your work , Take time for your body , stay fit , fuel yourself with the right food .Give yourself treats .Have a clear vision

But under no given condition , self love requires you to become selfish and mean towards this world .Keep your circle small but stay respectful with everyone .Give love not hatred .Share kindness and empathy .

Muneeta Aneja

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22 Comments Add yours

  1. Paula Light says:

    Agree. Self-love and self-care is not about being mean and bullying. That often is about inner weakness. Respecting yourself can mean standing up for the weak, or simply smiling and saying no thanks while walking away.

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    1. innervoice28 says:

      You’ve added the best light to the subject and tbankyou so much for understanding the crux of it .means a lot

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  2. Ihagh G. T. says:

    πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘nice points about self love

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    1. innervoice28 says:

      Thankyou so much β™₯️I am glad you liked them

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  3. mimionlife says:

    To show love to others, we must first love ourselves. We are created by God and He loves us. πŸ™‚

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  4. jesusluvsall says:

    Love this. Loving ourselves has nothing to do with being mean to others. Actually if we loves ourselves, we will not express hatred.

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    1. innervoice28 says:

      Exactly , Thankyou so much for understanding the essence of it β™₯️

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  5. AgreeπŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘, love it!

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    1. innervoice28 says:

      Thankyou so much β™₯️I am really glad you liked it

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  6. True ! Totally relatableπŸ‘ŒπŸ‘ŒπŸ‘ŒπŸ‘πŸ‘

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    1. innervoice28 says:

      Thankyou so so much β™₯️

      Like

    1. innervoice28 says:

      Thankyou so so much β™₯️

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      1. Most welcome Princess ❀

        Happy women’s Day belated 😊

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  7. Secret Souls says:

    I’ve read all your posts they all are amazing. Happy writing 😊

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    1. innervoice28 says:

      Thankyou so so much β™₯️means a lot

      Like

  8. Publicist says:

    Hi!!! Great post! If I follow you on there, will you follow me back? 😊

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  9. anjalisk96 says:

    This post is very true and accurate! Great job!

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  10. iScriblr says:

    I so agree!πŸ‘

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  11. inaloveworld says:

    Thank you for sharing truth and wisdom!

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  12. Gottfried says:

    You make a very convincing argument. Self love is a must

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  13. Our self love is only blocked by those inner fears we hold. They are our guard posts as we go through life to block anyone or thing from hurting us. What we don’t realise is those walls of fear we create are the very thing that block our self love. Those fears are built on ‘I’m not good enough…I can’t do’. And all those things we avoid.
    Being brave and facing those fears does the one thing that will dis-empower them, by finally understanding why those fears were built they will no longer have meaning.
    Like anything we face that is new and not understood, like a new job. At first we are nervous and unsure of ourselves and worry that we will not do it properly. But if I come back to you 6 months later you will say, its now much easier, simpler and you are no longer worrying about it.
    So too your fears. Once understood you release them…and that self love comes pouring in, as it should because there are no more walls to block it. You will see what you have endured to reach this point in your life and realise that your journey was exactly what was needed to find the real, beautiful, loving person within it ❀️

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