The awesome impact award nomination….

img_20180830_0242311454264042.pngNominated for ‘The Awesome Impact Award’

The Rules —

1.Tag the person who nominated you.
2.Take “The Awesome Impact Award” Picture and add that in your post.

3.Talk about an incident that impacted your life in a really positive way.

4.Nominate 10 other awesome bloggers for this award.

Hello lovely people ,

1.Tag the person who nominated you :-

I am completely grateful and thankful to “The Floating thoughts by _DEE KAY for nominating me for the awesome impact award …

Dee Kay is an inspirational and exceptional writer and his words form a connection with your soul …

Do check out this blog by clicking here https://dfloatingthoughts.com/2018/08/29/the-awesome-impact-award-nomination/

 

3.Incident that impacted your life in a very positive way :-

Since childhood , I was this little fragile girl playing with her Barbie dolls and kitchen set ….I have always excelled my academics and co_ciriculars .

I was bold on the speeches ,I made on stage ,but little did anyone know ,that I was coming from a home where domestic violence and child abuse prevailed ,every single day …..

I loved my dad ,I love him now too, and I am the one ,caring for him right now and I will always do ,no matter what …

But ,there was a time ,when I and my mom used to get verbally abused, mentally harassed and physically tortured every day ..

.The stigma of that violence and noise ..That screaming ,that throwing down things ,the words which hit me so bad , the stringent restrictions imposed on me …The childhood which got ruined ….The age which no one can return me back …..

My mom and dad got seperated frequently and then they came back together ….The pillar of my life was my ” maternal grandpa” , he was the index of my book and the pillar of my life …He raised me and guided me throughout my life .

Still,we came back to our dad’s house ….

Every day I used to care for him , I used to come outside ,when I heard him parking his car and excitedly greeted him ..But the alcohol was more powerful than her daughter …

He had a solid criminal record and people used to fear him …The everyday brutal fights ,made me very sick day by day , I gradually ended up in hospital for three to four months ..I got into chronic depression and I still remember ,for 7-8 months, I didn’t even step out of my house ….

Everyone said me to drop my 11th standard studies ,atleast for one year ..But I didn’t give up…I took admission in private schooling and completed my education with the best grades…

Time passed by ,Year 2014 ,my Nana jee passed away …..I felt devasted ,like I was left with nothing now …For the next few months , I wasn’t able to convince my mind ,that my grandpa is no more …He is actually no more ….

Things at my home got worsened …My dad thought ,the only support system is gone now …His extra marital hidden affairs got a forefront seat ..

And the irony of my life was , that the kept woman and my father , threw me and my mom out of the house …The illegals throwing the legals out …WOW !!!

Then it was all about police cases and court ..And believe me in India , Justice is eighter a misconception or a too long process …..

At a tender age , I had to leave my girlish side for some time ..The girl who never used to utter a word , had to collect evidences , had to make her voice echoed in front of this world and judiciary ….

I started making handicraft stuff , gel candles and decorative curtains and I used to sell them…The money which I collected from it , I used it to lay down the foundation of my own fashion house …I was continuing my studies in journalism as well …

I was the fuel of my house …and my mom and I created a wonderful small space for us and we were happy …But the things were just getting worse and worse from their side ..The pressure and blackmailing …..

I had to fight for my mom’s right …I had to give her what she deserved ….The battle was very long and the fact which used to hurt me the most was ” How can a father do this to her daughter ????? HOW ??

But , then I used to look at , small children begging for money on streets …Their empty stomachs and tear filled eyes ,made me realize that my pain is so smaller than theirs…..

It was a really long story and a very heartbreaking one too ..But it made me stronger and wiser ..It made me learn things everyday …It made my belief on my lord higher and greater ….

There were initial problems ..But with the pace of time , I got more educated , I tried to collect all relevant knowledge on these subjects and I was able to get some part of my mom’s and my rights back …..

But within this phase of my life , I saw everything , I saw how people turn from knowns to unknowns , how blood relation turns away ..How you have to step into this world and fight ..And how you have to combat your fears ……It taught me everything …And thus the biggest disaster of my life had the most positive impact on my life ..

Thus , my lord won and I won too…..

4. My nominations for 10 awesome bloggers :-

1.Poeticallyyours360

( Blog :- Reflections : A mindful journey )

2.Anita Shope

3.Bushra’s lifestyle blog

4.The lonely author

5.johncoyote

6.@vapor_sage ( Blog :- WTFAI)

7.The 50 year old poet

8.moments_with_DeeVee

9.Didis Art Design

10.Ravindra Nayak (Blog :- Something more than nothing )

_Muneeta Aneja

80 Comments

  1. Congratulations for the award dear😊
    You are such a brave girl that you fought for your mom and yourself and you are wise too that you find positivity from the disaster..you’ve set an example for others that we should never give up in life🙌🏻👍🏻

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    1. Thankyou so much dear ..This means a lot to me …You took your precious time to send me bundles of positivity and encouragement and believe me ….This tells a lot about you as a person……I am totally humbled by your kind words and thankyou so much dear 💓✨…Plz keep on guiding me further too

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  2. So touching a story dear. I’ve come to believe the strongest metals are forged with the hottest fire, no matter how steep your path was, you never fell, you kept moving. Such an encouragement. Congrats.

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    1. Thankyou so much….You read my story and appreciated me for my strength …This is more than enough for me …You spared your precious and valuable time , to read my story …Thankyou so much and your words have motivated me and provided me with an inner strength ..I’ll always remember this …and that’s very humble and kind of you .That speaks of you as a gentle human being ✨

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  3. Your story itself is very impactful. To me you are the epitome of unwavering determination and courage. You fought bravely against the violence and withstand at the adversity had already decided that you must going to win. The best part of your story is that you fought against your father and this is really a big thing. You are the real hero of your mom.
    Keep us inspiring, thank you.

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    1. Thankyou so much Vikash jee …This means a lot to me …Really ..Thanks a lot for sparing your precious time and going through my story …And your words uplifted me higher ….Plz keep on guiding me further ✨

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      1. You’re very charming too as you never forget to replying the line “Please keep on guiding me further.”
        Actually at this stage I need it most.

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  4. Congratulations for the award!!
    All I can say is….you are a brave girl like me or any other girl who has faced a lot. ..am really proud of you that you didn’t gave up…keep shining🙂
    Lots of love!!

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    1. Thankyou so much ……Yes you are brave and kind and this is the reason we are able to understand better ..Thanks for sparing your precious time to read this post and your compliments mean a lot to me ..Plz keep on guiding me further too✨

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  5. Congratulations for the award and the story is really heart breaking…I like your spirit and fight against odds.. you have the acquired with your powerful will the spiritual light combating against darkness…may you always win…and darkness will go far far…never touch in your boundaries of reality and dreams… blessings 💐

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    1. My greetings to you sir first of all….Thanks a lot for sparing your precious and valuable time to read my post ..and your words have empowered me …They have provided me with a sense of zeal and hope …And your blessings were the best part ….Thankyou so much ….This really means a lot to me …I am too small to say this ..But may God endow you with oppulent joy , as you are some of the kindest beings I have seen till date ✨

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      1. Friend when heard your story, I am nothing but a mixture of 5 elements of nature… you’re very very kind and bravest…may you will always get the light and stay blessed and happy so that even the darkness will cry and move away…thanks a lot for sharing brave story…be positive always friend 🌻🌻🌻💐💐💐

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    1. Thankyou so much dear …This means a lot to me ..You invested your precious time in reading my story …And I am totally humbled by your compliment…✨✨✨
      I love your blog posts ….Keep on sharing dear

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      1. Thank you I means a lot that you like my posts and I really like yours as well. I love hearing people’s story because everyone has one and each one is special and unique in it’s own way! 🙂

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  6. Life is never easy or fair. I have come across many stories that have the same back stories as yours and the one constant is that they all have is pure courage and the sudden maturity that they had at a tender age. I won’t say that I feel sorry for you not because I am a cold person but because I know you didn’t write this to gain sympathy rather you wrote it to inspire people who are going through the same.

    i am happy to see that you have found the inner courage to go on with a smile. Now, I just hope you continue the path and make something great out of the adversities that you faced.

    much love and respect,
    Dee Kay

    PS – If you ever need a person to talk then do hit me up.

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    1. My greetings to you Dee Kay first of all ..Secondly ,thanks for understanding my real reason behind writing it …And the way you have empathized with my mind and took your precious time to write this for me ….This means a lot to me ..I am totally humbled and thankyou so much again …Plz keep on guiding me further as you do ✨✨✨ and I am too small to say ,but stay blessed and may God endow you with everything you aspire for ….
      Regards
      Muneeta
      _Inner Voice 28

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      1. No-one is too small or too big to give or take blessings. I don’t believe in a religion but I do believe in positive energy and blessings are the best kind of positive vibes.

        I didn’t say anything that I don’t believe in. I am a honest guy (rare but we do exist) and my words are the windows to my world. I always believe that we all have a part to play in someone’s story. I don’t know how big or small my part would be but I surely believe that it should be worth it.

        I hope that someday I would be fortunate enough to have inspired someone to be the greatest in their field. I don’t know much about fashion but I know a thing or two about creativity so listen to your heart and do things that fill your soul before it fills your pocket.

        Stay blessed.
        Stay Strong.
        Stay Unbreakable.

        Dee Kay

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      2. Your words are truly a window of inspiration to everyone …And yes you are inspiring ,me and many young bloggers like me ….
        I know you are an honest and straight forward person and I do appreciate your creativity and the strong blog posts you write…..
        Regards
        _Muneeta

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  7. Congratulations on this amazing award! One thing is undeniable, life is never easy and we must find ways to survive the ugliness we may face. You are an incredibly brave and courageous woman. There is so much I can relate to and it amazes me how when we face hard times in life, we really show our true colors. I am so thankful that I have found your blog and truly love the passion you share in what you write. Your strength and determination shines through with every single word!!

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